When Your Partner Snores: What to Try Tonight and Next

When your partner is snoring and you are wide awake, you need a workable plan—not a promise of an instant cure. Start by protecting both people’s sleep tonight, then agree how to investigate recurring snoring when you are rested.

What you can try tonight

If your partner is sleeping on their back, gently wake them and ask whether they can comfortably turn onto their side. This may help when snoring is position-related, but it will not work for everyone.

Earplugs may reduce how much the sound disturbs you. If you choose to sleep in another room, discuss it as a practical arrangement rather than a punishment. There is no need to decide the future of your relationship in the middle of a sleepless night.

Avoid applying a spray, putting a device in someone’s mouth or changing their prescribed treatment while they are asleep. Agree on any product use while both of you are awake.

Notice breathing as well as noise

Breathing pauses, waking with choking and daytime sleepiness can point to obstructive sleep apnea. Arrange a healthcare appointment if these occur. Snoring that has a major impact on either person’s life also deserves attention, even if you have not noticed pauses.

A recording, made with your partner’s agreement, can help explain what you have heard. It is not a diagnosis. Do not spend weeks collecting recordings before seeking advice about concerning symptoms.

Make a plan in daylight

Try a simple opening: “I know you are not doing this deliberately. I am waking repeatedly, and I would like us to find out what might help.” Ask what your partner has noticed about their own sleep and energy.

Agree on one practical action and a time to review it. That might mean arranging an appointment, looking at alcohol use or discussing support to stop smoking. If weight management is relevant, approach it as a health issue, not a criticism.

A quieter, dark bedroom and a regular sleep routine can support sleep, but they do not diagnose or treat an obstructed airway. Keep the bedroom plan separate from the medical question.

Choose products for a reason

It is easy to collect pillows, strips, sprays and mouthpieces without knowing which problem each is intended to address. Before buying another aid, ask what it is designed for, how to use it and how you will judge whether it helps.

For Asonor-specific directions, consult the current instructions for use. Do not treat this article as a promise of immediate relief or as a reason to postpone assessment for possible sleep apnea.

Sources and further reading

• Royal Papworth Hospital: snoring, choking and breathing pauses
• NHLBI: healthy sleep habits
• Asonor: current instructions for use

Editorial review: 2 October 2026. Published by TannerMedico A/S, the manufacturer of Asonor. General information, not a substitute for individual medical advice.